Friday, November 27, 2009

Halloween's day

I wanna post more about my friends and my recent outing with them.Looking back at the picture taken with them makes me realise that how stupid I am for being too caught up with studying until I refrain myself from hanging out with them.Now, I wish I can get back to the past and hang out with them more because we might not be able to hang out together after SPM
Me, elaine, lian fen and shu wen metat baskin robbin on 31st of november because we got to eat the ice cream at cheaper price.Shu wen said that the ice cream was too sweet.This was actually my second time here.I shared a pint of ice cream with my family the first time I was here.i know I sounded cheapskate but RM 17 plus for a pint of ice cream was extravagant.I can have a decent meal at kenny roger with this amount of money. As always, me and shu wen.SW was the cutest friend I ever have.
Shu Wen and Lian Fen.Lian Fen likes citrus type of ice cream and most of the flavour that she choose was quite sour but a bit sweet.She told me lots of things today.She gonna go to college soon.However, we can keep in touch always because we live quite near to each other.When I get my driving license, the first thing I will do is to drive to her house and we will go for movie together.I wanna talk more about my friends..I realise that I crap too much about myself..This is the norm of life.People tend to be self centred.They will put themself ahead of everyone else.Same thing happens in a conversation.Sometimes , we are not really listening to each other.WE often treat communication as a race.It seems that no one was really listening to each other, instead they were taking turns not listening to one another.They will be competiting for the air time so that they can talk about their glory, their bad experiences, and so on.People tend to remember the thing that they say instead of the things that their friends and family say.I am quite cynical of saying these.I encounter this problem with my friend.We always fight for our chance to talk and we always try to make our airtime more interesting.I am cynical la...Aiyo.I will try to change, just like someone who tells me that she try to change but I never see any changes in her behaviour.She is still the same, rude and ignorant.This is just my negative perspective towards certain matter.I am also this type of girl who wanna be centre of attention and I dun really listen to others sometimes..I just wanna talk about me, me and me. and I expect everyone to listen..But , this is just not the way.I know that if we want someone to listen to us and understand us, we must firsly listen intently to them and try our best to understand them.I think I gonna talk more about my friends in the next few posts. Green tea ice cream
Happy Halloweeennnnnnn..

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